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Stay Strong & Fight On
Never was a battle won by laying down your sword
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WELCOME TO MY BEAUTIFUL TIRED MIND

I'm sure everyone at some point has been told by well meaning friends and family to “live your best life” - but in all honesty, what does that actually mean? And what if, like myself and so many other people I come across on my travels your health has other ideas - now that I find myself battling multiple chronic health issues I am more determined than ever to put mind over matter, take that advice and indeed attempt to live my life to the fullest despite the knock backs and obstacles thrown in my way; whilst continuing to share with you all the peaks and troughs of this journey along with my tips and coping techniques for maintaining the best mental health possible despite it all. Beautiful Tired Mind serves as a vessel to project my passions, lust for life and travel adventures whilst sharing my motivation along with what drives and inspires me in this battle back to a comfortable level of mental and physical health. So why not join me on this ride as I share the joys and highs of the good days and the fight to maintain positivity, composure, belief, hope and optimism on and despite the bad days AND to always try to put up the best fight possible regardless of mood, health and circumstances - let's share the journey together and make new friends along the way X

MUSIC FOR
THE SOUL
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Am I alone in thinking that when listening to songs in a particular mood it's not just the happy upbeat ones that lift you, even the deep ones can offer some comfort. Sometimes although a melody can be lamenting with a sorrowful tone, for some reason it resonates - it's lyrics & melancholyness often whispers to you like a lullaby. It encapsulates the way you are or were feeling at a point in your life; despite maybe ironically describing the hurt and pain you felt at the time and putting it into words. For me the unexpected feel good vibes despite the sadness comes from the fact that whoever was able to put my heartbreak to music - whether in love, life or loss must have felt what I felt and that I am not alone and not only that but they've somehow put my feelings perfectly into words which validate my feelings of pain and confusion.....We all need a a little upbeat and funky at times but it's good to know we are not alone and that there is even comfort and camaraderie in the sad times when they are shared and although we shouldn't dwell too long, there is nothing wrong in feeling and embracing a little of that sadness every now and then - below are some of my favourite go to's, good or bad a song fits a mood X
JLB
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THREE LITTLE BIRDS
Bob Marley
"Don't worry about a thing
'Cause every little thing gonna be all right
Singin': "Don't worry about a thing
'Cause every little thing gonna be all right!"
Deep Purple
When a Blind Man Cries
If you're leaving close the door.
I'm not expecting people anymore.
Hear me grieving, I'm lying on the floor.
Whether I'm drunk or dead I really ain't too sure.
I'm a blind man, I'm a blind man and my world is pale.
When a blind man cries, Lord, you know there ain't no sadder tale.
Had a friend once in a room,
Had a good time but it ended much too soon.
In a cold month in that room
We found a reason for the things we had to do.
I'm a blind man, I'm a blind man, now my room is cold.
When a blind man cries, Lord, you know he feels it from his soul.
WONDERFUL LIFE
Black
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"No need to run and hide
It's a wonderful, wonderful life
No need to laugh and cry
It's a wonderful, wonderful life"...
ORDINARY WORLD
Duran Duran
"But I won't cry for yesterday
There's an ordinary world
Somehow I have to find
And as I try to make my way
To the ordinary world
I will learn to survive..."

GARY MOORE
Parisian Walkways
SEVEN SPANISH ANGELS
Willie Nelson & Ray Charles
"There were seven Spanish angels
At the altar of the sun
They were prayin' for the lovers
In the valley of the gun
When the battle stopped and the smoke cleared
There was thunder from the throne
And seven Spanish angels
Took another angel home.."
PRETTIEST EYES
The Beautiful South
"Lets take a look at these crows feet, just look
Sitting on the prettiest eyes
Sixty 25th of Decembers
Fifty-nine 4th of Julys
You can't have too many good times, children
You can't have too many lines
Take a good look at these crows feet
Sitting on the prettiest eyes..."
IF I COULD BE WHERE YOU ARE
Enya
"Where are you this moment?
Only in my dreams
You're missing, but you're always
A heartbeat from me
I'm lost now without you
I don't know where you are
I keep watching, I keep hoping
But time keeps us apart..."